In December 2019, soon after her mother's untimely death to dementia, Shobna Gulati discovered a box tucked away amongst her mother's possessions. In it lay a catalogue of cut-out clippings of every time Shobna's name had been mentioned in the press. What was strange about this discovery was that throughout Shobna's life her mother had barely mentioned her daughter's career highs nor the box of memories she'd filed them into. In this deeply moving, tender and humorous memoir, a daughter sets out to reclaim her mother's past after her death and bring it into the present.